In the prior postings, I discussed some soundtrack considerations. Obviously, you probably already have some of the more obvious choices, such as "Let's Get it On" and other songs with words. The beauty of using instrumental music is that if the words aren't quite right for your situation, those songs might set up a cognitive dissonance.
For instance, if the lyrics involve marriage and being together for the rest of your lives, and you both know that you're involved in a more 'right for right now' relationship, that can be awkward.
But it's not enough just to suggest instrumental music. Some of the rhythms used on many recordings are stressful in and of themselves. Dr. John Diamond documented this in his landmark book, "You're Body Doesn't Lie" about the same time as I wrote about this from a musician's viewpoint. It involves the fact that certain rhythms create stress because they are opposite to the natural beat of the heart.
For instance, the rhythms I use on my album, Music For Lovers - Volume 2 (The Rhythm Method) http://www.innerpeacemusic.com/albumdetail.asp?pid=53 uses rhythms that are in sync with the natural patterns of the body.
So pay attention to what you're feeling, and how you're breathing, when you listen to the music with the one you love. The vibe you save may be your own!
Until next time, Stay Tuned!
Harmoniously Yours ™
Steven Halpern © 2007
